Implications of eating disorders in family dynamics

Implications of eating disorders in family dynamics

  The peak age of onset of eating disorders occurs in mid-adolescence, so parents and other close family members often assume the role of caregivers. A family that faces a member with an eating disorder becomes the place for miscommunication, where there is room for painful silences, late recriminations, feelings of guilt, and frequent promises of change. Therefore, the family should never be or feel guilty about the disease, but acknowledge their responsibility in resolving it. This recognition of the family as part and not cause of the disease is part of the patient’s treatment process.

The first step that the caregiving family should take is to talk with the patient about unhealthy habits, which can lead to significant nutritional deficits and, consequently, loss of health, work, studies, relationships, etc.

  • It is essential that the caregiving family adopts a non-judgmental stance of those who are willing to help, always making the patient’s qualities clear.
  • Family caregivers should explain to the sick person that they perceived that he/she is suffering and that this suffering can be alleviated if together they seek appropriate treatment.
  • However, we should not force it if the sick person is unwilling to seek help. There should be a space within the family for the sick person to be heard. And when so, try not to judge, let the person express themselves and respect their feelings.

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